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The New Dating Rules<br><br>约会新法则<br> <br><span style='color:blue'>For Sisters Only </span><br><br>·Don&#39;t allow a man you&#39;ve recently met to visit your home, not even to pick you up for the date. Meet him at the destination or at some other public place.<br><br>·Don&#39;t hesitate to make the first move and introduce yourself, but don&#39;t make if a sexual overture.<br> <br><br>· Don&#39;t sleep with him on the first date. In fact, don&#39;t sleep with him at all until you know him well and are sure he wants a committed relationship.<br><br>· Don&#39;t date a man who will not give you his home number but instead offers his pager number. He&#39;s either married, living with a woman or so big a "playa" that he&#39;s not worth your time.<br><br>· Don&#39;t date a man who doesn&#39;t love his mother. Don&#39;t date a man who can&#39;t stop talking about his mother.<br><br>· Don&#39;t make a commitment to the uncommitted. Commitment is not commitment without two consenting parties.<br><br>女士法则<br><br>· 不要允许你新近认识的男人拜访你家，甚至不要同意他开车接你去约会。你应在约会地点或其他公共场合与他碰面。<br><br>· 不要犹豫不决，要敢于跨出第一步，并介绍你自己，但不要把它变成一种性暗示。<br><br>· 别在初次约会时就跟男人发生性关系。实际上，在你很了解他并确定他想确定你们俩关系之前，都别与他上床。<br><br>· 不要与只给你呼机号码而不给你家庭电话号码的男人约会。他要么已有妻室，或和别的女人同居；要么是个大玩家，不值得你为他浪费时间。<br><br>· 不要约会不爱他母亲的男人。别与不停地谈论他母亲的男人约会。<br><br>· 不要轻率地对未做承诺的男人做出承诺。承诺如不是双方认可的就不成其为承诺。<br><br><span style='color:blue'>For Brothers Only </span><br><br>· Don&#39;t date a woman who is overly interested in your salary.<br><br>· Don&#39;t date a Daddy&#39;s Girl or a woman who hates her father.<br><br>· At every stage of the dating game, be honest about your intentions. Men should explain what their commitment level is and isn&#39;t. If you are dating others, say so. If you want it to be exclusive, then say so. Initiate the commitment conversation and save a lot of grief later on."<br><br>· Don&#39;t be cheap. If you ask her out, then you pay for the first date and other outings until you have an understanding. If you can&#39;t afford dinner or a movie, then ask her to meet you for dessert and coffee. Have fun getting to know each other.<br><br>· Don&#39;t be overwhelmed by a woman&#39;s appearance. Make sure she has more going for her than a pretty face and a great body.<br><br>· If you are not interested after the first date, or the first few dates, don&#39;t tell her you will call and then don&#39;t. Be honest, Simply tell her that it&#39;s not working out, that it&#39;s not a love match, and that it is no fault of hers.<br><br>男士法则<br><br>· 不要约会对你的薪水过于感兴趣的女人。<br><br>· 不要约会父亲的娇娇女或是痛恨她父亲的女人。<br><br>· 告诉对方你的真实意图。在约会行动的每一个阶段，男人都应该说明白他们的承诺处于什么层次。如果你还与他人约会，就实说。如果你想使你们俩的约会成为排他性的，也要照实说。展开就承诺问题的谈话，省得以后许多悲伤。<br><br>· 不要小气。如果你约她出去，就得承担第一次约会和其他外出活动的开销，直到你们有了了解为止。如果你付不起餐费或电影票，就请她与你一起吃点心喝咖啡。在相互了解对方的过程中玩得开心。<br><br>· 不要被女人的外表所征服。务必要弄清楚除了一张漂亮的脸蛋和迷人的身材外，她是否还有更值得追求的地方。<br><br>· 如果在初次或头几次约会后，你对女方不感兴趣，不要对她说你将给她打电话而后又没有这么做。诚实些，坦率地告诉她你和她的关系没有进展，你和她的结合将不是爱的结合，当然这都不是她的错。<br> <br>

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