绅士的基本品质（英）

笑仙人

He never tells anyone, no matter who, what his wife told him in confidence, or describes what she looks like in her bed room.<br><br>他从不把他夫人对他说的知心话告诉任何人，不管是谁，或向别人描述他夫人在卧室里的模样。<br><br>He never criticizes in public the behavior of a wife whose conduct is scandalous. What he says to her in the privacy of their own apartments is no one’s affair but his own, but he must never treat her with disrespect before their children, or a servant, or any one. No matter who he may be, whether rich or poor, in high life or low, the man who publicly besmirches his wife’s name, besmirches still more his own, and proves that he is not, was not, and never will be, a gentleman.<br><br>他从不公开批评行为不体面的妻子。他在家里私下对他妻子说什么，这纯属他个人的事情，但他不能在孩子、仆人或别人面前对妻子不尊敬。一个人不论贫富贵贱，公开丑化他的妻子时其实更丑化了自己，并且证明他现在不是，过去不是，将来也不可能是个绅士。<br><br>He never discusses his family affairs either in public or with acquaintances, nor does he speak more than casually about his wife.<br><br>他从不在公开场合或与熟人谈论他的家庭琐事，谈论他的妻子时也只是漫不经心地。<br><br>He does not lose control of his temper easily. In fact, in his own self-control under difficult or dangerous circumstances, lies his chief ascendancy over others who impulsively betray every emotion which animates them.<br><br>他不轻易失去自我控制。事实上，在艰难或危险的情形中表现出来的自我控制力，正是他超越那些为各种情绪而冲动的人之处。<br><br>He never takes advantage of another’s helplessness or ignorance, and assumes that no gentleman will take advantage of him.<br><br>绅士从不利用他人的无助和无知占便宜，而且认为凡是绅士也都不会占他的便宜。<br><br>He never takes advantage of a woman in a business dealing, nor of the poor or the helpless.<br><br>在生意上，他从不欺负女人、穷人和无助的人。<br><br>0ne who is not well off does not "sponge”, but pays his own way to the utmost of his ability. 0ne who is rich does not make a display of his money or his possessions. 0nly a vulgarian talks ceaselessly about how much this or that cost him.<br><br>如果他不富裕的话，他不坑蒙拐骗，而是量入为出；如果他富有的话，他从不炫耀他的金钱或财富。只有暴发户才会喋喋不休地谈论这个或那个花了他多少钱。<br>

嗜攻如命

这就叫绅士了吗？绅士谈到自己的妻子的时候都应该是不经意的吗？那么欣赏和赞美自己的妻子算什么哪？

hehe, support xiao xian ren

笑仙人

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庄周

prima！

yingz1221

大学的时候,一起出游.偶们班男生居然同女生抢位置 <!--emo&:&#33;--><img src='http://www.kaiyuan.org/modules/ipboard/html/emoticons/excl.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='excl.gif'><!--endemo--> <br>从此后,我们都说这年月,已经是"gentlemen first"了 <!--emo&--><img src='http://www.kaiyuan.org/modules/ipboard/html/emoticons/laugh.gif' border='0' style='vertical-align:middle' alt='laugh.gif'><!--endemo-->  

小瘪三

You daughter of pregnant woman&#33;